Think of something in your life that you’ve dream about but haven’t accomplish. Whether it’s because something deep-down, you’re not too confident and haven’t make possible efforts or you took a shot but unsuccessful. No matter what call up your mind but the upshot is “you fail”.
The causes of failures are not outside issues, circumstances, people or whatever. It is all because of us, our outlook to conditions. Below are some common roots that make you failure in life. Read it and think of:
You are too distracted
Login to Instagram, check stories, tweets, upload stuffs, check notifications, check emails, Instagram again, switch to Facebook, swipe, post, check messages/notifications, rinse and repeat and can for hours. Well this is all most of ours waking life. Social media influencing our lifestyle that drive away from goals and somewhere we accomplish nothing in the process.
How to Escape:
Limit yourself from social distractions. Set specific hour blocks to use social media, net surfing or other social doings. In working hours, turn off your devices or keep away from yourself.
You are too good in arguing against advice instead of taking
To succeed at anything you need to make right choices. Sometimes we stuck in the battle of become right at any pointless argument and forget to look what is good for us. People who gives you advice, feedbacks or opinions, they care for you; they want to see you successful. However, as to listen feedbacks or opinion you start augmenting and doesn’t accept feedback. Somehow, this is the reasons that you’d never change.
How to escape:
Not to say that you should take advice from everybody but you should accept feedback from everyone’s and think about it, whether it’s relevant or not. Because this will support you to distinguish, where you’re going off beam and how’ll you mend it.
You’re afraid to stand out among the crowd
You fail because you’re afraid to take stand for yourself, you’re afraid from other’s judgement, you’re afraid what’ll they think of you, you’re afraid to take risks. Therefore, you don’t want to see out from the frame.
How to escape:
Keep calm and ask this question to yourself “How bad do you want it?”
If you badly want to do something incredible in your life that makes you stand out above the rest, then you have to leave your comfort zone. Doesn’t matter what other will think, you just need to stick by your side and work on it. Once you free yourself from boundaries of uncertainty and insecurities, you’ll get more closer to your dreams and success and can fly very far.
You don’t take responsibility for what happened in your life
There are numerous situations in life, in which may seem completely prejudiced and impossible. If you’re good enough to make excuses for every letdown or what disorder happens, you fail. Many of us, always set to give clarification on any flop situations, but at our core do you truly gratified with the explanation?
Remember whatever has happen in your life, no matter good or bad, you’re the responsible for them and only you can do about it. To fix the failures, firstly you need to take responsibilities for them.